
1. Discuss together
Help the member honestly assess whether they'd benefit from added connection, daily structure, and real-time support. If they need consistent accountability and a community walking the same road, Relay may be a great fit.
Give the men and women in your congregation a confidential path out of pornography — a fellowship of accountability and therapist-designed lessons built for lasting change, not shame.
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You see it in the counseling appointments, the quiet confessions, and the marriages quietly coming apart. Pornography is one of the most common struggles in the pews — and one of the least talked about.
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More likely to divorce when pornography is part of a marriage
56%
Of divorces involve one spouse using pornography
75%
Of Christian men report consuming pornography on some level
10%
Say their church offers a program that actually helps
It only takes a quiet word and a link. Here’s how to point a member toward real support — without making it awkward.

Help the member honestly assess whether they'd benefit from added connection, daily structure, and real-time support. If they need consistent accountability and a community walking the same road, Relay may be a great fit.

To get your referral link, join our free Church Partner Program — it takes about two minutes. Then you can hand any member a link that unlocks a free trial of Relay.

Empower the member to take a meaningful step forward — expanding their support system, deepening accountability, and building real momentum in their recovery.
Pastors, ministry directors, and faith-based counselors partner with Relay to give their people a confidential, clinically grounded path to lasting freedom.
Join church partner programFrom the App Store, Google Play, and messages to our team — every word below is exactly as the men and women who wrote it put it.
Relay offers a solid approach to the problem of pornography in reminding people of their worth and that real healing and progress are possible.

Sit down with our team for a walkthrough of the app, the group model, and the Church Partner Program — and see how simple it is to give your members a real path forward.
Everything a church leader tends to ask before partnering with Relay — privacy, cost, and how it fits alongside the care you already provide. Still have a question? Reach out; we’re real people and we’ll help.
It's a free partnership. You fill out a short form (about two minutes), and we send you a referral link you can share with members. Anyone who joins through your link gets a free trial of Relay, and you get a simple way to point people toward real support.
Yes. Relay is built for confidentiality — members choose how they show up, most use a first name or pseudonym, and nothing they share is tied to their public identity or reported back to the church. Leaders never see a member's private activity.
No. Relay is a clinically grounded, group-based recovery program, not a religious curriculum. It works alongside your ministry and your beliefs rather than replacing them, so it's a fit for congregations across traditions.
Relay is $149 for a full year — a fraction of ongoing therapy — and members you refer start with a free trial. That includes their group, daily accountability, every lesson, and progress tracking.
No. Relay is designed to complement the care you already provide. The lessons are therapist-designed, and the daily group accountability carries members between conversations with you or a counselor — it doesn't take your place.
Book a consultation or become a partner below. We'll walk you through the program, answer questions, and get your referral link set up so you can start sharing Relay with the people who need it.